Monday 10 April 2017

Home Away From Home...


As I mentioned in my last post both my Hubby and I are from England. We both absolutely love it there, we still call it home... its just not the home we reside in. Sydney is now our home. Australia has been home to me for a number of years, I immigrated here with my parents when I was 15. A choice I not always thanked them for, but one which ultimately came to appreciate and has made me who I am today. Mr C moved here  when he was 24 for a gap year. (Un)Luckily for him he met me and the rest is history I guess you could say!

We recently got home from a 5 week adventure to the sunny UK to take little Miss E back to our homeland, introduce her to her English family and to have a bit of a break ourselves. Living in Sydney is amazing, we both absolutely love it, but you see the problem is neither one of us have any of our extended family here, and its hard! Really hard! No one there to take the baby for a walk when you're so tired you can barely keep your eyes open, to drop in some nappies because you haven't managed to get out of your tracksuit and mum bun for a few days, or to just chatter with when baby talk is all you have had for weeks on end. So England was a trip we were both really looking forward to-- a very expensive babysitting opportunity you could say!!

We flew Qantas from Sydney to Heathrow and then got a connecting to flight with British Airways to Manchester. 30 + hours of travelling with a then 7 month old! In hindsight I'm not entirely sure what we were thinking travelling the whole flight without a break....... I had managed to write list after list of preparation but I hadn't quite thought about what that would mean to my little Miss E.



Qantas were pretty good. We knew we had wanted to do this flight 3 years ago - my Grandmother was turning 90 and I wanted to be there to celebrate it with her- so we had for 3 years been saving points. We had managed to save enough points to pay for 1 return flight business class!!! Neither one of us had ever been anything other than Economy - we wanted to treat ourselves- and a treat it was!!!
Now business class is amazing, but heres my personal opinion - do it before kids - just so you can appreciate it that little bit more!!

The things we loved about it:

1. The seat - - seriously I'm not sure how i have managed to do all my previous long distance flights without it.... or how I'm going to do the ones in the future back in the upright seat.

2. The bassinett - now Miss E who is just shy of 9 kilos - which means she safely fits 6-9 month old clothing and should of easily fitted the basinett did NOT like sleeping in it. She was too long. It had this seat belt thing that went over the top which was amazing if you have little bubbas because they can stay in the basinett during turbulence. In Miss E's case this got in the way of her usual nightly dance of tossing and turning. I actually woke up to find her hands through the top of it looking like a little jailbird. I have to say... i felt a huge pang of guilt. Needless to say, she spent the rest of the outward and return flight asleep with either mummy or daddy.  It DID however supply us with a brilliant space for her to play to her audience. Sat bolt upright, toys scattered in front, she promptly smiled, waved and 'Ga Ga' ed at pretty much everyone who went past her.  SO in the end we did get a bit of a break

3. Fast track- Well... I loved that it got our suitcases through and us through passport control quicker... but it basically did absolutely ziltch for the security aisle. Having a baby in an airport basically meant that fast track really isnt for you... with your bags upon bags of baby food, bottles, formula ( i did still breastfeed Miss E on the way out but we lost the supply due to time zones... but thats for another post), toys, nappies, baby carrier... the list was endless. We did make it through and I have to say I was in awe of the mummies and daddies doing it with more than one baby ....

The things we didn't so much love:

1. The nappy changing facilities - in the airport you tend to get your standard table in the disabled toilet, but on the plane.... thats a whole other story... its basically a board that comes down from over the toilet... which Miss E only just about fitted on. It works I guess and I'm not entirely sure what could be done to make it better, but having to circumnavigate a small space which in my germophobic world was full of yuckies did nothing to help my anxieties. (I should say though I found an amazing mothers room at Dubai airport -  was like a little hotel suit- maybe all the other airports should try to emulate this - it was lush!!

2. The Galley seats - Ok, so whoever decided that the best place to put babies trying to sleep was next to the galley where the air staff try to do their work maybe should of gone back to design school. The banging, chiming, chatting of the staff trying, as appropriately, to go around their work did absolutely nothing to help Miss E sleep and by default us sleep. I dont know, I guess maybe I should of said something when 8 hours into the 14 hour flight from Syd to Dubai all I could hear was a conversation about spray tans.... but then I thought, where else are they supposed to speak. So I just sat with my squirming little girl and tried, though failing miserably, to entertain her.


I've decided this blog post is going to on and on... So i'm going to leave that bit there and save the next bit for another post.

Have you travelled with a baby? Do you have any tips? I think my next blog will be what we took that we needed, and what we took that we absolutely didn't need... Now I have to go and wake my darling Miss E, who is still fighting her jetlag!

Ta Ta

Abi xx


Sunday 9 April 2017

Its a bloggers world... and I'm gonna join it!

 
How are you supposed to start a blog? I mean, I've read so many over the last 18 months, all well established, funny, full of information and somewhat addictive in the following of every day life of beautiful families.. but how the heck does it start? I guess mine is going to start like this...

I knew I wanted to start a blog when I fell pregnant with my beautiful little girl Miss E, but who would want to read about our lives. My husband thinks i'm hilarious - he loves the idea of the blog, but really has no idea about them. As I write this he is standing in our kitchen, holding Miss E laughing at his hash tag jokes, luckily for him I do find him funny (most of the time). He wants to know what the blogs going to be about... Great question I've said... I think it'll just come as I write; But I want it to be no frills - I'm sure there will be filters on my posts on instagram don't get me wrong, but I want this to be real, so that when hubby, or the family or even Miss E reads back on this they will know this is actually us. The Cliffs. The real, the bad, the ugly and the downright hilarious. I want to share the things we like, the things we dont, that have worked and the things that haven't.


My name is Abigail - but everyone calls me Abi or Abs.
I am Mummy to my beautiful 8 month old Miss E - my strong minded, independent , inquisitive little girl. 
I am wife to my strong, smart, loving ( & averagely humoured) hubby Mr C.
I adore them both 
I love to cook, I'd say my cleaning abilities could really do with some improving, I like to pretend I like the gym but I've had a gym membership for the best part of 10 years and can safely say its not high on the priorities list. My hobbies used to include reading, sleeping, baths and eating good food. These days my hobbies continue to be sleeping (but I don't really get any of it), reading (usually mumsnet or something similar) which tells me what the heck I to do with that days baby hurdle, and me time... though I haven't quite managed to make that a real hobby yet.
We all live in Sydney. I am from near London, UK. I moved here when I was 15. My hubby is also from the UK - Bolton. He moved here 5 and a bit years ago... we met here. My parents live in Queensland on the sunny Gold Coast, and Mr C's parents still live in not so sunny Bolton.
We are raising our little girl on our own, no relatives nearby. Its actually a whole lot harder than I ever thought it would be, but we are doing it... one day, one mistake and one glass of wine at a time.

I want this blog to be for us. For me. So that I can look back on it and have memories of the things I might not have remembered otherwise. Hopefully it gives me some 'me time' too. Hopefully I manage to use it as often as I want to. Please if you are reading this, try not to judge me too much on my grammar or mis-spelt words, of which i am sure there will be many.

I am going to try and make this as honest as I can, but within a certain boundary. 
You would have noticed that I haven't named my daughter or my husband. That is on purpose. 
This blog is mine, its is my want to record and remember... but Miss E can't give consent and I am determined to keep her privacy for as long as possible. For that reason, I also wont be posting pictures of her face. I will post pictures... but I want her to have her privacy so one day she doesn't resent me for compromising it.  I am sure it'll be a task to make sure I can achieve that... but I am sure as hell going to try for as long as possible!

I guess that's it for now... I'm off to sort out the baby and get a hot large cup of coffee!

Ta Ta 

Abs

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